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Meetings

     There are three chapters in the Valley of The Sun. The meeting start time for all three chapters is 7:00 P.M., though the doors are normally open at 6:30PM and newcomers are encouraged to arrive early to receive an introductory packet. There will be paperwork to fill out (optional) so that we may stay in contact with you, send you a copy of our newsletter, and assist you in deciding how much information about your child you would like in the newsletter or on this web site.

Westside Chapter

     The Westside chapter meets on the first Thursday of the month.

     St. John the Baptist Episcopal Church
     4102 West Union Hills Drive, Glendale, AZ, 85308

     One block east of 43rd Avenue on the north side of Union Hills. The meeting place is located in the main church. The entrance is on the north side of the church. Look for the TCF banner. There is plenty of parking on the east and west sides of the grounds.

     The Westside chapter leader is: Debbie Klippel. Debbie may be reached at (623) 580-9885.

Mesa/Eastside Chapter

     The Mesa/Eastside chapter meets on the second Thursday of the month.

     College View Baptist Church
     1810 South Longmore, Mesa, AZ, 85202

     One traffic light east of Dobson/Baseline intersection. Go north onto Longmore Dr. about 100 yards (through a stop sign) to the church. The church will be on the left. Enter the rear parking lot of the church next to the second building. Look for the TCF banner.

     This chapter has two co-leaders. They are Shawn and Denise Dean. They may be reached at (480) 785-8114.

Central Chapter

     The Central chapter meets on the third Thursday of the month.

     Church of the Beatitudes
     555 West Glendale Avenue, Phoenix, AZ, 85021

     Located on the southeast corner of 7th Avenue and Glendale. Enter the parking area just east of 7th Avenue and south of Glendale. The meeting is held in the Bride's Room which is in the Britt Chapel, located just north of the sanctuary. Look for the TCF banner.

     The Central Chapter leader is Betty Nelson. Betty may be reached at (602) 841-8649.

Notes

What is said or happens during a meeting is confidential.

You do not have to speak.

Sometimes just making it to a meeting is enough.

Give TCF meetings at least three trys before deciding if TCF is or isn't for you.

Chapter meetings are usually run as follows:

     An introduction and greeting by the chapter leader.

     The chapter leader acknowledges any "Newcomers" to the circle.

     Chapter business announcements, etc.

     Introductory circle. Each member states their name, their child's name followed by a brief statement of the circumstances of the child's death.

     A short break for bathrooms, refreshments, and taking a deep breath.

     Sharing circles. Depending upon the circumstances and the number of attendees, the meeting will break into two or more sharing circles of 10-12 members each. Four or more "newcomers" warrants a sharing circle specific to "newcomers and "second timers", which the chapter leader facilitates.

     The sharing circle is where you may share the issues and concerns that you have about your child's death. It is also the time where you will get a nugget of information that may help you in your grief journey.

     At about 8:45 the meeting will be completed. Each chapter differs, but some will form a circle of silence and remembrance. You can, and usually will, make new friends.

     Cleanup. Please assist in leaving the meeting room and outside areas as clean as possible.




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